[FSOFT Parent’s Day 2025] “Have you started the fire in the kitchen this early morning, Grandma?”

Even if you fly far away,
To every corner of the world,
Where there are a hundred ships with their own smoke,
A hundred different joys
But never forget to remind yourself:
Every early morning, the kitchen fire is still burning warmly!

Dear Loi, my beloved!

I remember when you were little, you used to whisper to me that when you grew up, you’d always stay by my side, just like how I’ve been with you throughout your childhood, through your days in middle school, high school, and even as you entered university. Yet time flies so quickly, now you’re a young man, leaving my embrace to chase after your own dreams.

Loi, dear! There’s a Vietnamese saying: “Every tree has its flower, every home its story,” meaning each person and each family has their own situation, never completely perfect. Everyone has their own joys, sorrows, and challenges. Our family may not be whole, but it will always be your home and your place of comfort. From the bottom of my heart, I love you dearly.

Since your mother left this world when you and your brother were just little, I’ve been not only your grandmother, but also your mother and your friend. At FSOFT Parent’s Day, I’d like to speak for your mom and send you a few words – things I haven’t had a chance to whisper to you in a long time.

Thinking back to your school days, I feel so proud! Your grandpa and I were only able to help you and your brother with your studies during kindergarten and primary school; after that, you mostly learned on your own. For all those years you were in school, I was your parent. Every time I heard about your achievements, all my worries melted away.

I remember so clearly your days at Chu Van An Middle School. Your homeroom teacher, knowing our family’s situation, cared for you as if you were her own child. Then in high school, you specialized in Japanese, and your teachers gave you every opportunity to study and grow just like your classmates. When you graduated, you wrote a piece sharing your memories of your old school. Reading your words, I knew you had truly grown up.

Now, you don’t get to spend much time with me, but I always want to remind you about gratitude. No matter how far you go, never forget that your school days were filled with care from your teachers, especially Ms. Hang, Ms. Thuy, and your Chu Van An school, who made up for what you lacked and nurtured you into the person you are. Visit them when you can, okay?

FSOFT asked me what my dream is. I’m nearly 90 now, my dream is you, your health, and your strong, resilient steps. Studying at Foreign Trade University, then starting your career, you even got the chance to go to Japan to exchange and learn. I’m so happy. Even happier still, I understand your feelings – worrying about your aging grandparents at home, you wanted to put your dreams aside to take care of us. That’s a sign you’ve truly grown up!

But I want to tell you: If an opportunity comes, seize it. Move forward, fly high with your dreams, explore and learn about the world. As for us, we have your aunts, uncles, and neighbors to help. Be confident and keep moving ahead!

I hope you build a strong foundation for yourself, and if possible, continue your studies Master’s, Doctorate. Never be lazy or stop progressing in your education while you still have the health, intellect, and opportunity. Education will be your strongest asset to grow, to cultivate yourself, and to live a good, meaningful life. Even as you worry about making a living, never chase money alone and lose your dignity. I hope you’ll find a soulmate, someone who’s thoughtful, considerate, and together build a happy family. That’s my hope for you.

Loi, dear! Out in the world, there are many temptations. I hope you stay strong. Everyone must grow up, like birds leaving the nest to find their own way. But never forget that I’m always here to listen to you, offer advice, and be the “warm kitchen fire” in your life. No matter how far you go, remember the flame of love from your grandparents and family will always burn quietly, guiding you on every journey.

Wishing you health and wisdom to keep pursuing your dreams. And even if your steps take you far, may the sound of your grandma’s voice always stay with you.

All my love,

Grandma.

The grandchild mentioned in the letter is Tran Ich Loi (FGC.BCC). He is one of FGC’s outstanding figures, pioneering the AI FIRST strategy, placing artificial intelligence at the core and as the driving force for productivity growth. His contributions have played a significant role in helping the company win over new customers.

The translation was provided by PrivateGPT.